Passing on etiquette as insignificant generally leads to the abandoning of deeds that are Sunnah, which leads to the discarding of a wajib (compulsory) act and so on.
Imam ‘Abdullah Ibn Mubarak (rahimahullah) said:
“If I leave out a single etiquette of Islam, I fear that Allah will deprive me of all that He has bestowed me with.”
(Kitabu-Tahajjud of Al-Ishbiliy (rahimahullah) pg. 132.)
The society we live in is so foreign to the concept of adab that many a reader of today may consider the above statement as exaggerated.
The following two incidents serve as an eye-opener to all in this regard:
- My Esteemed Teacher, Al-Muhaddith Shaykh Muhammad ‘Awwamah (may Allah protect him) cited the following personal experience in his most recent book entitled: “Ma’alim Irshadiyyah”
Before quoting it he writes:
“I find it difficult to quote this episode because of its last portion, but I will do so anyway so that I may draw attention to something important”
“I was once while studying in Halab (Aleppo) carrying my kitab in my left hand when my teacher, a great scholar and one with rare capabilities, Shaykh Ahmad Qallash (rahimahullah) came to me and took the kitab from my left hand and placed it in my right hand saying: “O Allah grant me my book (i.e., book of deeds in the Akhirah) in my right hand”
Several years passed and I became a student at the Damascus University. It was the last day of the term and we were waiting to have our oral examination taken for the kitab “Tuhfatul Fuqaha” (a book of Hanafiy Fiqh)
One of the students became tired of standing for such a long time and wanted to take a seat on the stairway, but it was dusty. He was wearing black pants and the dust would easily show on it. So he placed the kitab on the step and sat on top of it!!!
Shaykh (may Allah protect him) continues: “By Allah! I feel hurt even just relating this incident, but my purpose was to draw a lesson…”
(Ma’alim Irshadiyyah, pg. 244-245)
Note:
Look at the difference between the two; one of them felt nothing wrong in committing this act of disrespect and the other excuses himself twice for merely quoting the incident….!
This (acquisition of adab) is a major benefit of studying under a reliable ‘Alim, instead of self (or even online) study.
Respect for Quran
- The second incident I quote from a very senior ‘Alim of my country, Shaykh Ibrahim Mia (may Allah protect him). Shaykh Ibrahim is very active in many fields of Din, one of them being the spreading of the Quran and its teachings in Africa.
A few years ago, on a visit to him with my beloved Father, He told us the following story:
“We generally go to certain parts of Africa for the service of Din and we habitually take with us copies of the Holy Quran for distribution. The sad reality is that in many places people haven’t even seen the Quran. They learn from slates etc.
While in a remote part of Africa, we handed over a copy of the Quran to a person walking in a jungle. He became ecstatic, kissed it, and placed it on his head. In Fact, it was like a ceremony in that village, where many people gathered just to see this. We were indeed moved by their respect for the Quran.
That very year, I was blessed with a visit to the Haramain (The blessed lands of Makkah and Madinah). While sitting in the Haram (Holy Masjid) after a particular salah, I noticed the cleaners of the Haram. There were two of them on a ladder cleaning the chandeliers. One of them, despite being on the highest point of the ladder was unable to reach the top of the fitting. So he casually asked the one below him to hand him a few copies of the Quran, which he placed on the last step of the ladder and then stepped on those Qurans so he could reach that part of the chandelier!!!”
May Allah protect us!
Moral
The reality is that when one begins to compromise on minor practices (if they could be referred to as minor) then there is no stopping. It’s like slippery ice, and slippery ice is no joke!
The following has been reported from the Salaf (pious predecessors) among them Imams ‘Abdullah ibnul Mubarak (rahimahullah), Ruwaym (rahimahullah) and Abu ‘Aliy Ad-Daqqaq (rahimahullah):
من تهاون بالآداب عوقب بحرمان السنة ومن تهاون بالسنة عوقب بحرمان الفرائض، ومن ترك الفرائض عوقب بحرمان المعرفة
“Whoever belittles etiquette will be punished by being deprived of the sunnah, and who leaves a sunnah will be deprived of the fard (obligatory) deeds and he will eventually be deprived of his recognition of Allah.”
(Shu’abul Iman, Hadith: 3017, Kitabut- Tahajjud of Ishbili, pg. 132 & Mu’idun Ni’am of Subkiy, pg. 85)
From where to where
During my stay in Madinah Munawwarah in the year 2000, I would frequently visit an elder Scholar; Shaykh Sayyid, ‘Abbas Saqar (rahimahullah).
He once mentioned that in his childhood, the Qurans would not be left on open stands all over the Haram (as is the existing norm in the Haramain). Instead, they were locked in a special cabinet, and the keys would be by a responsible caretaker. He says: “The Quran would not be handed out to children” (because of their lack of respect) After saying this he lamented over the current state of disrespect towards the Holy Book of Allah.
Shaykh ‘Abbas (rahimahullah) passed away a few years later in Salah during Ramadan. May Allah shower his special mercies upon his soul. He was a very warm and passionate Scholar.
All who visit the Haramain, will be witness to the sad sight of disrespect shown to the Quran. People carry the Quran like they carry their shoes; i.e., on their sides instead of holding it by the heart. The Quran is found lying on the floor all over. This is where it all started. Then it led to the sad, depressing state that is quoted above.
In our case, it may start from allowing ourselves or our kids to place other books (in some cases un-Islamic magazines) and other items on top of the Quran. Be careful before someone thinks of standing or sitting on it!
So, Yes! Adab is really that important!
Let’s not underestimate the magnitude of respect and etiquette. If we fail in this regard, one can never imagine what could be the result…
May Allah protect and guide us all. Amin.
15/05/2013
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التخريج من المصادر العربية
كتاب التهجد للإشبيلي (ص ١٣٢): قال عبد الله بن المبارك: «لو تركت سنة من السنن، أو أدباً من آداب الإسلام لخشيت أن يسلبني الله جميع ما أعطاني».
معالم إرشادية (ص ٢٤٤ ـ ٢٤٥): كنت أيام طلبي – وما زلت طالباً، والحمد الله ـ في ساحة المدرسة الشعبانية – أدام الله نفعها وعطاءها ـ، بمدينة حلب حرسها الله وسائر بلاد الإسلام ومعي كتابي، أحمله بيدي اليسرى، فجاءني فضيلة شيخنا العلامة المتفنّن الذواقة، ذو الملكة العلمية النادرة، الفقيه الشافعي النَّحوي، الأستاذ الشيخ أحمد قلاش، المتوفى بالمدينة المنورة، عن عام (١٣٢٨ ـ ١٤٢٨) تغمده الله برحمته، فأخذ الكتاب من يدي اليسرى، ووضعه في يدي اليمني وقال: اللهم آتني كتابي بيميني.
ومضت مدة ليست بالطويلة، ودخلت كلية الشريعة بجامعة دمشق، ونحن في آخر العام الدراسي الأول، ننتظر الاختبار الشفهي في مادة الفقه، وكان الكتاب المقرر علينا تحفة «الفقهاء» للإمام السمرقندي، وطال الانتظار على أحد الطلبة، وتعب من الوقوف، فأراد الجلوس على درجة في الصالة، لكنها مغبرَّة ـ طبعاً ـ ، وهو يلبس (البنطال) الأسود، والغبار يظهر عليه بشدة، فما كان منه إلا أن وضع الكتاب «تحفة الفقهاء» على الأرض وجلس عليه !!!.
إنه يسوؤني والله – أن أسجل هذا – ولكني أردت منه أمراً آخر، هو: أن يقف القارئ على مثال حي واقعي فيه الفرق الكبير بين التربية على أيدي علماء عاملين حريصين على اقتفاء السنة النبوية، وتلقينها عملياً لأبنائهم الطلبة، حتى في هذه الجزئية : حمل الكتاب باليد اليمنى لا اليسرى، وبين الدراسة في أروقة الجامعات الصمّ البكم – إلا ما رحم الله -.
كتاب التهجد للإشبيلي (ص ١٣٢): قال رويم: «من ترك الأدب عوقب بحرمان السنن ومن ترك السنن عوقب بحرمان الفرائض، ومن ترك الفرائض عوقب بحرمان المعرفة».
معيد النعم ومبيد النقم (ص ٨٥): أخبرنا الحافظ أو العباس بن المظفر بقراءتي عليه، أنا أحمد بن هبة الله ابن عساكر بقراءتي عليه، أنا الإمام أبو القاسم ابن الإمام أبي سعد عبد الله بن عمر الصفار إجازة أخبرنا جدي الإمام عصام الدين أبو حفص عمر بن أحمد بن منصور ابن الصفار. قال: سمعت جدي يقول: سمعت الأستاذ أبا القاسم القشيري رحمه الله يقول: سمعت الأستاذ أبا علي الدقاق يقول: «من استهان بأدب من آداب الإسلام عوقب بحرمان السنة، ومن ترك سنة عوقب بحرمان الفريضة، ومن استهان بالفرائض قيض الله له مبتدعا يوقع عنده باطلا فيوقع في قلبه شبهة».